How to Make Your Own Fabric Epaulettes for a Soft Touch

A Soft Touch: Crafting Your Own Fabric Epaulettes

Epaulettes have long been a symbol of authority, a structural statement borrowed from military uniforms and integrated into high fashion. Yet, the traditional stiff, sharp-edged epaulette can feel out of place in a world that values comfort and personalized style. This guide will walk you through creating your own fabric epaulettes with a “soft touch” – pieces that retain the visual impact of their predecessors but offer a fluid, comfortable feel that moves with you. We’ll bypass the hard plastics and rigid forms, focusing instead on techniques and materials that result in a beautiful, wearable, and uniquely personal accessory.

The Foundation: Choosing Your Fabric and Interfacing

The soul of your soft-touch epaulettes lies in the fabric. Forget stiff brocades or heavy canvases unless you’re specifically going for that look. We’re aiming for drape, texture, and comfort.

Fabric Selection:

  • Linen: A classic choice. It has a beautiful, natural texture and a fantastic drape. For a soft epaulette, a medium-weight linen works best. It’s stable enough to hold its shape but will not feel rigid. Think a warm, sandy-colored linen for a safari-inspired look or a crisp white for a minimalist aesthetic.

  • Rayon/Viscose: Known for its incredible drape and silky feel. A solid-colored rayon will create a fluid, elegant epaulette that cascades over the shoulder. This is a perfect choice for evening wear or a blouse where you want a delicate, flowing accent.

  • Tencel/Lyocell: A sustainable and luxurious option. Tencel has a similar feel to silk but with a matte finish. It’s exceptionally soft and breathable, making it ideal for epaulettes on lightweight garments like summer dresses or tunics.

  • Cotton Twill: A more structured, yet still soft, option. A light to medium-weight cotton twill provides a clean, crisp look without the stiffness of canvas. This is excellent for a more casual, everyday epaulette on a denim jacket or a utility shirt.

  • Double Gauze: For the ultimate soft-touch epaulette. This fabric is two layers of lightweight muslin woven together, creating a puffy, cloud-like texture. Your epaulettes will look and feel incredibly soft and unique.

Interfacing Selection:

Interfacing is the unsung hero of this project. It provides the necessary structure without adding bulk or stiffness.

  • Fusible Knit Interfacing (Lightweight): This is your go-to. It’s soft, stretchy, and won’t make your fabric feel like cardboard. It will support the fabric and prevent it from stretching out of shape. The “knit” part is key because it moves with the fabric, not against it.

  • Fusible Woven Interfacing (Lightweight): For a slightly more structured but still soft epaulette. Woven interfacing is stable and provides a clean finish. Choose a lightweight version to maintain the “soft touch” ethos.

  • Non-Fusible (Sew-in) Interfacing: If you’re working with a delicate fabric that can’t handle the heat of an iron, or if you prefer the control of sewing the layers together. This gives you more flexibility but requires an extra sewing step.

Example: For a linen epaulette on a casual blazer, you would pair a medium-weight linen with a lightweight fusible knit interfacing. The linen provides the texture, and the interfacing gives it just enough stability to hold its shape on the shoulder without feeling rigid.

The Anatomy of an Epaulette: Patterns and Templates

Before you can sew, you need a pattern. This is where you define the shape and size of your epaulettes. Think of this step as sculpting.

Standard Epaulette Shapes:

  • Rectangle: The most common and easiest to create. A simple rectangle with slightly rounded edges. The size is up to you, but a good starting point is 2.5 inches wide by 6 inches long.

  • Tapered: A rectangle that gets slightly wider at the shoulder end. This shape follows the natural curve of the shoulder and can be very flattering.

  • Shield: A more elaborate shape with a rounded end and a tapered end. This is a classic military style.

  • Crescent: A softer, more feminine shape that follows the natural curve of the shoulder. This is particularly beautiful for epaulettes on dresses or blouses.

Creating Your Template:

  1. Sketching: Grab a piece of paper and a pencil. Draw your desired shape. Don’t be afraid to experiment.

  2. Measuring: Hold the paper template up to your shoulder. Adjust the length and width until you’re happy with how it looks. The epaulette should sit comfortably on the top of your shoulder, not hang too far down the arm or sit too far up the neck.

  3. Refining: Use a ruler or a curved French curve to refine your lines and make them clean and symmetrical.

  4. Creating a Reusable Pattern: Once you have your final shape, transfer it to a piece of cardstock or a durable plastic sheet. This way, you can use it again for future projects.

  5. Adding Seam Allowance: Your pattern piece should include a seam allowance. For most epaulette projects, a 1/4 inch or 3/8 inch seam allowance is sufficient. This is the distance from the edge of your pattern to the actual stitching line.

Example: Let’s create a tapered epaulette. Draw a line 6 inches long. At one end, draw a line perpendicular to it that is 2.5 inches wide. At the other end, draw another perpendicular line that is 1.5 inches wide. Connect the ends with a straight line. This creates a tapered shape. Round off the wider end for a softer look. Add a 3/8-inch seam allowance around the entire shape.

Step-by-Step Construction: The Sewing Process

This is where your vision comes to life. We’ll break down the process into manageable, actionable steps.

Materials Checklist:

  • Fabric of your choice

  • Interfacing

  • Matching thread

  • Sewing machine

  • Fabric scissors or rotary cutter

  • Iron and ironing board

  • Pins or fabric clips

  • Hand sewing needle (for attaching the button)

  • Two buttons (for each epaulette)

1. Cutting Your Fabric:

  • Lay your fabric on a flat surface, with the wrong side facing up.

  • Place your pattern on the fabric, ensuring the grainline is straight. The grainline is the direction of the warp threads, and it’s essential for a good drape.

  • Pin the pattern in place and cut two pieces for each epaulette. If you’re making a pair, you’ll need a total of four fabric pieces.

  • Repeat this process for your interfacing. Cut two pieces of interfacing for each epaulette.

Example: For two epaulettes, you would cut four fabric pieces and four interfacing pieces.

2. Fusing the Interfacing:

  • Place one fabric piece wrong side up on your ironing board.

  • Lay one piece of interfacing (the rough, adhesive side down) on top of the fabric.

  • Following the manufacturer’s instructions, press the interfacing onto the fabric. Use a gentle, even pressure. This step is crucial for giving your epaulette its structure.

  • Repeat this for the other three fabric pieces. Now you have four fabric pieces, all backed with interfacing.

3. Sewing the Epaulette:

  • Place two of your fused fabric pieces right sides together.

  • Pin the pieces along the sides and the curved end. Leave the narrow, straight end (the end that will attach to the shoulder seam) open.

  • Sew a seam around the pinned edges, using your designated seam allowance (e.g., 3/8 inch).

  • Pro Tip: To create a smooth curve, sew slowly around the rounded edges. You can also slightly decrease your stitch length for a cleaner curve.

  • After sewing, trim the seam allowance to reduce bulk, especially on the curved parts. For a nice, crisp edge, you can “notch” the curves by cutting little triangles out of the seam allowance. Be careful not to cut through your stitching line.

4. Turning and Pressing:

  • Carefully turn the epaulette right side out through the open end.

  • Use a point turner or a knitting needle to gently push out the edges and corners. A bamboo skewer also works well. Be gentle to avoid damaging the fabric.

  • Once turned, press the epaulette flat with an iron. Pay close attention to the seams, ensuring they are crisp and clean.

5. Creating the Buttonhole (or Loop):

  • Option 1: Buttonhole: If you’re using a buttonhole, you will need to create it on the narrow, open end of the epaulette before you attach it to the garment.
    • Measure the button and mark the buttonhole placement. A good placement is about 1/2 inch from the end.

    • Use your sewing machine’s buttonhole function to create a neat, professional-looking buttonhole.

  • Option 2: Fabric Loop: A fabric loop is a softer, more elegant option.

    • Cut a thin strip of fabric (about 1 inch wide by 4 inches long).

    • Fold the strip in half lengthwise, right sides together, and sew a 1/4 inch seam.

    • Turn the tube right side out and press it flat.

    • Fold it in half to create a loop, and baste it onto the narrow end of the epaulette, on the underside, with the raw edges aligned.

6. Attaching the Epaulette to the Garment:

  • Placement: The epaulette is attached to the shoulder seam of your garment. Pin the open, narrow end of the epaulette to the shoulder seam, making sure it’s centered.

  • Sewing: Stitch the epaulette to the shoulder seam, sewing across the narrow end, close to the edge. A straight stitch or a small zigzag stitch will work well.

  • Button Placement: Place the button on the garment’s shoulder, directly under where the buttonhole or loop will be. Try on the garment and mark the exact position with a pin or chalk.

  • Hand Sewing: Securely hand-sew the button onto the garment. This step is important for a strong hold. Use a double thread and a sturdy button sewing technique.

Example: You have a soft-touch epaulette ready to be attached. You’ve already sewn the fabric loop onto the narrow end. Pin the epaulette’s narrow end to the shoulder seam of your jacket. Stitch it securely. Now, button the loop and mark where the button needs to go on the garment. Hand-sew the button onto the jacket at that spot.

Advanced Techniques and Customization

The foundation is built; now you can play. These techniques will elevate your soft-touch epaulettes from a simple accessory to a true design statement.

1. Topstitching:

Topstitching adds a professional, finished look and can be a design element in itself.

  • Use a slightly longer stitch length (3.0-3.5) for topstitching.

  • Use a contrasting thread color for a pop of color, or a matching thread for a subtle, elegant finish.

  • Topstitch a quarter-inch from the edge of the epaulette. You can topstitch all the way around or just on the visible sides.

2. Adding Embellishments:

  • Beads and Sequins: For a glamorous evening look, hand-sew beads or sequins along the edges of your epaulette. This adds sparkle and texture.

  • Embroidery: Embroider a simple design, a monogram, or a geometric pattern onto the top of your epaulette before you sew the two layers together. This is a chance to show your personality.

  • Fringe: For a boho or Western-inspired look, add a soft fringe along the curved edge of the epaulette. Cut a fringe from a piece of faux suede or a tightly woven fabric and sew it into the seam before turning the epaulette right side out.

3. Layering Fabrics:

Create a unique visual effect by layering different fabrics.

  • A Solid Base and a Textured Top: For example, use a solid linen for the base and a delicate lace or embroidered fabric for the top layer.

  • Color Blocking: Create a two-tone epaulette by sewing two different colored fabrics together before constructing the final shape.

Example: You’ve created a crescent-shaped epaulette from dark navy rayon. For a sophisticated touch, you decide to topstitch it with a beautiful gold thread. You also want a bit of sparkle, so you hand-sew small gold beads along the outer curve.

A Powerful Conclusion: Your Personal Statement

Creating your own fabric epaulettes with a soft touch is more than a simple sewing project; it’s a journey into personal style. It’s a rejection of the rigid and a celebration of comfort, texture, and individuality. By carefully selecting your fabrics, meticulously crafting your shapes, and adding your own unique embellishments, you’re not just making a fashion accessory—you’re crafting a personal statement that is both elegant and authentically yours. These epaulettes will be a testament to your creativity, providing a visual punctuation point to any outfit, and proving that structure and softness can beautifully coexist.